With the book "Leading grief groups: giving those affected support and structure (Edition Guide)" [1] Monika Müller writes a practical guide that is aimed at people who lead grief groups or plan to do so in the future. The guide offers a wealth of information and guidance to give those leading grief groups the support they need.
The guide is clear and structured.
The chapters are logically structured and build on one another in a meaningful way, so that even readers without prior knowledge can follow easily. The language is understandable and practical, which makes the book easy to read, and complex topics are well explained and illustrated with examples, so that an overview of the essential content is quickly conveyed. As the author herself writes, the “book is intended as a working aid for the conception and implementation of grief groups” [2]. And as such, it is divided into a general section and a specific schedule for group meetings, broken down into phases.
An essential part of the book is the explanation of group dynamic processes.
But also their development during the phases already mentioned. The author goes into detail about the different phases that a group goes through and offers practical tips on how these phases can be accompanied and supported by the leader, but also the role dynamics that should not be underestimated as a group matures. This is particularly important in order to understand the dynamics within the group but also the individual social roles of the participants and to recognize that “the change in one’s own social role is one of the major variables that influence the severity and type of reactions to grief” [3].
The book contains numerous practical examples that illustrate the theoretical content.
These show how the content can be applied in practice using the stage or phase model mentioned above. These examples come from the author's many years of experience as head of ALPHA Rheinland, the contact point in NRW for palliative care, hospice work and family support based in Bonn, and offer valuable insight into practical work with grief groups. These make the theoretical concepts tangible and facilitate implementation in practice. In addition, in the general section the author provides examples from her everyday professional life to support the theoretical foundations.
The guide offers a methodical plan that can enrich the work in grief groups.
- Notice
- Understanding grief
- Remember
- Accepting and expressing feelings
- Role changes
- Stress and coping
- Anniversaries and forms of remembrance
- The other place of the lost
- Support
- Conclusion, evaluation and outlook
These suggestions tend to be presented in a very methodical and analytical manner.
Checklists are certainly a solid anchor here. The suggested methods are therefore practical and can be easily integrated into everyday group life because concrete instructions provide a good framework: "[...] with an overview of the activities of this group meeting (sic), as well as teaching sheets to distribute" [4]. The methods and ideas in the book can also be implemented for youth bereavement groups in many ways.
The book covers many aspects of grief work, but a deeper look into the specifics of different grief situations, such as grief after suicide or sudden death, could be helpful. These topics are addressed, but could be covered in more detail.
The guide is aimed at everyone who is involved in grief work or wants to prepare for it.
Particularly for leaders of bereavement groups. The book also offers valuable information and practical tips for people in the pastoral, therapeutic and educational fields.
When reading, it becomes clear how important it is not only to give those who are grieving space for their grief, but also to offer them structure and support. The book's practical suggestions and methods therefore illustrate how this balancing act can be successfully mastered in group work. It becomes clear that grief work requires a great deal of sensitivity and empathy, but also clear structures and methodical approaches.
Conclusion.
Overall, “Leading bereavement groups: Giving support and structure to those affected (Guide Edition)” is a highly recommended guide that comprehensively addresses the needs of those leading bereavement groups and offers valuable assistance.
[1] First published in 2014 by Klett-Cotta
[2] From “Leading grief groups: Giving support and structure to those affected (Guide Edition)” by Monika Müller (Klett-Cotta) – Page 1
[3] From “Leading grief groups: Giving support and structure to those affected (Guide Edition)” by Monika Müller (Klett-Cotta) – page 91
[4] From “Leading grief groups: Giving support and structure to those affected (Guide Edition)” by Monika Müller (Klett-Cotta) – page 64